Tuesday, December 1, 2009

What is the best way to flirt with women?

I want to know this because I suck at it! I recently flirted with one who had gorgeous eyes, and almost got in trouble for it.



Now I am questioning this whole flirting thing... and how it is done. What are the right ways and the wrong ways?



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Are you kidding???



Women are so confusing it is scary. A way might seem right with one woman, and a total disaster with another.



Just keep at your style, perfect it, and you will start to succeed.



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be yourself. women see through all the fake stuff
Dude, you definatly have to be yourself
know how to listen, really listen.
Don't use cheesey lines, whatever you do. Don't be cocky, either. Show confidence (not to be confused with arrogance), class, and sincerity. Express a genuine interest in her. Ask her questions about herself. Women know when you're interested in getting to know them vs. when you're only interested in getting with them.
Know this. Most girls are liars. Even though this society calls for girls to be sweet and want guys who are nice and caring, and blah blah blah. That is a lie. Most girls would fall head over heels for the bad boys type quickly even though they are not suppose to. So be a bad boy. Do crazy things. You'll attract female more.
If it鈥瞫 someone you know and have chance to talk to (like a co-worker or a neighbor etc.) try paying attention to her.



When you talk, try to keep eye contact (but just for enough time for it to start to be unconfortable; its not supposed to be visual rape or anything creepy). Remember things she said at previous times, this will show you were paying attention. Try to do something nice once in a while (for evolutionary reasons, females have better memory to keep track of prospect mates attitudes and likelihood that he鈥瞝l be helpful in child raising) so several small gestures will mean more than a single grand one.



But do avoid the sweet-guy-at-hands-reach trap. From time to time pull back and simply treat her politely but without any special attention. This will make her miss the I鈥瞞 special feeling.



Keep turning the heat on and off and soon, she鈥瞝l crack, like a rock under the sun and rain. Of course, you do realize this whole process might take a few million years, so it really only makes sense for that one special girl.
Why do you have to flirt? Like bat your eyelashese? Or show your calves? First, talk, be sincere, if she smiles, play on that. Women like to be made to smile, they can start to feel excited thinking that they are laughing and smiling because of you! Don't think so much about flirting, but communicate. Men aren't so good at it but a woman will put you at the top if you know how to talk. by the way, I am a woman! (you could also ask women....maybe it's better than asking men)
Girls like it when men are nice to them. Then you can get a little closer to them later. Just a little though.
Trip them as they walk by you. They'll know that you've noticed them.
I think you need to show this by small gestures,like helping her or assisting by taking her coat or buy her a drink..in other words act like a real gentleman.
My man and I have been together 3.5 years now, and what made me like him was that he was very nice to me, He told me about 2 months before we started going out "don't take this wrong, but you're beautiful" Which made me blush, but we talked about things we had in common, and soon started dating. Be nice, don't be a pig, maybe you could ask her friends about her, that way it is sure to get back to her, and she will know you like her.
communication..definitely

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